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Role-playing in sex can be rewarding. Many women play as nurses, teachers, maids or even law enforcers. It gives us the feel of child play when we were younger. The one thing I loved the most doing is being a bedroom diva. Let me add yes I once was married before. This should be done on a very special occasion. It might be your lover’s birthday, an anniversary or maybe Christmas or Valentine Day. There is a little work to it because you are not just a stripper with a wig and a song on the radio lip-synching. Let’s face it your man would love to see all your goodies bare naked but strip clubs offer the same. As women, we want to try to keep our lover attention. Most of all every female have an inner playgirl. So it is normal to hear your lover call you cupcake, honey, and baby in public while strangers overhear. Of course, they assume you two are an item. This is where you want to build from. A bedroom diva brings out your creativity. I know it is hard to believe but a female pastor once said what you got to get him you have to continue to do keep him. Well, that might sound out of line for some stuck-up Christian but it's the truth. Yes, the bible does talk about coming together as one so the enemy will not tempt you. It does not matter how lady like you are you can achieve the bedroom diva.
One of the first things you would have to do is start writing. Lyric writing is a craft and not just some raw talent. That is right. Let your love pour on the page. Maybe your man nickname is boss, a Mr. Big, or stallion. You want all those heated emotions put into words. I recommend using the basic rhyming scheme. Remember this is between you and your lover. It is the thought and work put into it and not if you're a master of the skill lyric writing. The basic scheme starts with a simple format. I call it the A, B and C. Here is an example of A, B and C scheme.
The Basics
Example: ABCB
A
Roses are red
B
Violets are blue
C
Your loving is so hot
B
I am going to make your dreams come true
There are many online rhyming dictionaries that will help you to match your scheme. There is a free trial try of Master Writers software for poets and songwriting. It can be found at masterwriter.com. It might take a little while to get your words together but here are some steps while your sex diva comes alive.
Tips
- Save everything and throw nothing away. This is the first thing that writers learn. The reason behind this is because you never know what you can use later when an idea hits.
- Analyze other sexual songs you enjoy or that release your sexual energy. This will help later when you are putting your lyrics to music.
- Show it and don’t tell it. If your vagina throbbing doesn’t say I am hot. Put some creativity to and say your overheated amazon.
- Make yourself write even when you have writer block, if it is bad, or it make no sense at all.
The bedroom diva has put her emotions on paper. You can actually sing it yourself.
You are ready for step two. That is finding someone to sing it and put some music to your grooving. I thought this step would be the hardest. The truth is there are many companies on the web doing demos for lyric writers. Some ranging lesser than two hundred dollars. Make sure you explain to the company you choose that you are doing this for a special occasion. The reason is that some only choose songs that have the possibility of being sold. I am pretty sure if they understand your reasons it can be done. Here are a few that you can find on the web.
ParamountSong.com and Demomysong.com is a few to name among the market on the website. There are also local recording studios in most large cities. You might have a problem finding someone to sing it. So take that into consideration. After you have found the right company to make your demo and bring life to your words, you need to figure out will it be one instrument, a band and how many vocals. We all know it will be a female singer but what kind of music? Would you want a ballad or tempo? Should the song be sung in country, pop, R&B? This is the few decisions you will make on your order. Here is a belief vocabulary.
One instrument
A piano or guitar played alone.
Band
A group of five instruments to make a unique sound.
While you preparing for your demo arrive you might want to start thinking on an outfit. Who is your inner sex diva? Many places like Fredrick of Hollywood, Victoria Secret can be found right in your local area. You can also search the web for stores like your nipplecovers.com or stripperboutique.net. Will you need a wig? Your local hair store has many wigs and costume stores as well. Do you need to lose a few pounds to make her come true? Most of all you want to start buying exercise tapes like Flirty Girls collection or some Carmen Electra Striptease. Let’s face it Zumba is on hold for tonight. You want to work up a sweat in the bed and not the dance floor. Some of us girls who play divas watch music videos on YouTube. It can help give you ideas on your performance while learning a few. If you are close to forty or forty plus and don’t have an idea. Do what I do, talk to the younger generation of girls. I find dance moves from my daughter and nieces. Get the in style. You not too old to twerk. Remember this is a private moment between you and your lover. There is no judges to rate you. So drop it like it’s hot. Make sure you do your checklist.
Check List
1. Outfit
2. Makeup by a local department
3. Cosmetologist or Nail Tech appointment
4. Arrangement to be alone
5. Practice schedule when demo arrives
It is here! The demo of your song has arrived. Your bedroom diva is completed. Now you have to sample all those good moves you learn while exercising to make a licentious diva striptease he will never forget. Show off your G-string thong, lingerie, nipple covers, Marilyn Monroe costume. Enjoy the behind the red curtain tonight while you perform and not being on the red carpet. I bet your lover will think twice of that night when he sees another music video. A bedroom diva just for him.
